Kinkette MY KINK IS YOU Signature Candle in mirrored black glass vessel on white background — luxury fragrance
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MY KINK IS YOU Signature Candle

A spark of black pepper, a heart of sweet jasmine and green fig, and a warm redwood-amber-vanilla embrace. No costume, no power game...just plain heat.
By Kinkette
$60.00

Top Notes: Black Pepper
Middle Notes: Jasmine, Fig Leaf and Fir
Base Notes: Redwood, Amber and Vanilla

The Mistress of Scent says this one is spicy, woody, and exactly your type.

MY KINK IS YOU doesn't waste time. It opens with the heat of black pepper and frankincense, sharp and smoky, the kind of first impression that follows you out of the room. The heart turns softer and stranger: jasmine and fig wound through earthy fern, sweet and green and quietly seductive. Then it settles in for the night, uncovering warm amber, vanilla, and red wood, rich and unhurried and in no rush to leave. It lingers on the air, and a little on your mind. Light it once and you'll see why you'll never forget it.

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PRODUCT DETAILS
  • Luxe coconut soy wax candle hand-poured in the United States
  • Paraffin, phthalate and paraben free
  • Cotton wick
  • Approximate burn time: 40-50 hours 
  • Net weight 8.5 oz. / 241 grams
  • Vessel dimensions: 3 in diameter x 3.5 in. height
CANDLE CARE INSTRUCTIONS

Caring For Your Candle

Trim the Wick: Before each use, trim the wick to 1/4 inch.

Burn Time: Allow the candle to burn for 2-4 hours at a time, or until the wax melts evenly across the surface (important to avoid tunnelling). Do not burn for more than 4 hours at a time. Stop use when ½ inch of wax remains. 

Safety First: Always burn candles on a heat-resistant surface, away from drafts, flammable materials, children, and pets. Never leave a burning candle unattended.

Extinguish Properly: Use a candle snuffer to extinguish the flame, or gently blow it out. Avoid using water, as this can cause the hot wax to splatter, or the candle lid.

Storage: Store candles in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
SHIPPING & HANDLING
  • We process orders within 1-3 business days of the order being placed. Orders are shipped Monday through Friday. You will receive an order confirmation and a shipping confirmation email.
  • Please double-check your mailing address when placing your order. Once an order is placed, unfortunately, we cannot make any changes.
  • Products must be returned within 30 days of the delivery date. The product must be returned in a condition such that it can be resold.

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While kink is deeply personal, we believe kink is about exploring consensual, non-traditional desires that bring intimacy and excitement into play. For those who indulge, it’s more than just fun—it’s about connection, trust, and embracing self-expression in a community built on respect and open-mindedness. What is kink to you? We'd love to learn more about what sparks your curiosity—use the hashtag #MYKINKIS to share your unique style, favorite scents, and what inspires you to set the mood.

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